Personality
To begin with, my discussion of personality in church here will utilize HEXACO, and Gretchen Rubin's Four Tendencies.
The Four Tendencies is a model equivalent to many other 4-type models. Contrary to how Gretchen Rubin describes her model, like to think of the four tendencies as the 4 primary ways in which people ground themselves in reality, or equivalently, the four primary ways in which people measure themselves. (I still consider Gretchen Rubin's description valid and valuable.) The Four Tendencies are:
Tendency | Gretchen Rubin's Description | My Description | Church Personality (Strengths & Weaknesses) |
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Upholder | Motivated by both internal and external expectations | Grounds self in reality through authority figures and authoritative institutions and regulations. Uses these institutions to measure self.
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Weaknesses |
Obliger | Motivated by external but not internal demands. | Grounds self in reality through their social connections. Measures self based on ability to get along with everyone. |
Weaknesses |
Questioner | Motivated by internal and not external demands. | Grounds self in reality through analysis, empiricism, and logic. Measures self against goals, practical life success, and personally developed system of morals. |
Note: This is my type, so I expect to struggle a bit at identifying potential weaknesses.
Weaknesses |
Rebel | Motivated neither by internal nor external demands. Very much guided by how they feel in the moment and their sense of identity. |
Grounds themselves in reality through their feelings and their sense of identity. Measure themselves based on how they feel and how well they live out their sense of who they are. |
Weaknesses |
Upholders and Rebels have a particular antipathy in society, and in the church this appears to manifest in Utah by a tendency for upholders to make pilgrimage to Utah, and to give the place particular spiritual significance. This concentration of upholders in the church in Utah makes the church in Utah a particularly uncomfortable place for Rebel personality types who often feel pushed out of the church.
It also means that Utah has generated a false cultural doctrine that Utah is the city of Zion that was prophesied of in scripture.